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I hope that this is ok to ask, and if it isn’t I’m sorry.

Does anyone know if Walloped and Mrs. Reconciled or eventually divorced?

I rarely come back here, and when I do it is usually in the Spring (anniversary of DDay) or September (anniversary of the divorce). End when I do come back, I remember some of the people who were here when I was going through all the fun, and wonder how they are doing.

I also recalled a man from South Africa who caught his wife cheating when she would go away on business trip to the UK, and finally filed a year after DDay to the wife’s surprise. I can’t remember his name, but a friend who was on here told me that he passed away shortly after getting married to another woman. I hope his new wife, his son, and his daughter are ok.

While I am walking down memory lane, anyone heard how spaceghost is doing? I know he divorced and then moved up and down the east coast for work and ex wife moved to Florida, at first to be close to him, but ultimately to restart her life.

Well, I hope everyone going through this hell is doing as well as possible. Hang in there. I promise that things do get much, much better! And that if you do decide to divorce, the things that you fear the most don’t come forward, or at least they didn’t for me.

Great questions. I still think about spaceghost often.

OhforaNewMe was such a loss for so many here. Wish his wife would occasionally pop in but don't blame her if she cannot.

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I believe I saw Spaceghost post in a thread in JFO this week but no update on his life if I recall right. Would be nice to get a life update from him, as well as what has happened with his ex-wife.

I think the last time Mrs. Walloped posted was back in 21-22... from what she described Walloped had entered the PLOF and she could tell. Also, unfortunately, Walloped had a bad case of COVID during the bad early times.. had to turn their living room into a hospital ward, ventilator...scary, bad stuff although he would eventually recover.

You can also search members and their profile page will show the last time the member visited.

The man from South Africa, if I remember well and if we are talking about the same person, unfortunately passed away. I also remember his story very vividly.

Ikwym! I have been around here for a lil while and think of so many folks and their stories often.

Many times I can not recall their usernames but they left a heart print.

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I've been wondering about some of the older crew as well. In particular, I've been thinking about 36yearsgone. Last update a few years back, he was losing his vision and had a stroke and seemed to be stuck with his WW. I hope he is doing ok and has found peace and safety.

This thread is bothering me as a staff member of a website built to keep people anonymous. People will post updates when they feel the need, otherwise we should leave them alone. I'm going to lock it.