Emotionalhell (original poster member #39902) posted at 4:38 AM on Wednesday, April 29th, 2026
I am moving out. Rural area, rentals are hard to find. I was approved for a rental; however, the cat urine smell was so strong, and they had already shampooed the carpets. The landlord wasn't willing to take any measures to remove the cat urine smell. So, I'm moving in with my son, who is renting my house. At least I will be emotionally safe. So much has happened since the beginning of this year, and I know that if I stay, nothing will ever change. Since the start of the year, I’ve been told he can't take me because I told the other betrayed spouse. He only wanted a platonic relationship and reminded me he had at least one affair to intentionally hurt me while he faked ED. He says he loves me and doesn’t want me to go, but he still isn’t willing to give me any intimacy. I deserve so much better. I'm loyal to a fault. Being single will be better than this emotional hell ride. This is still so hard.
The not feeling safe is strong. I can't move fast enough!
Me BS x2. 50ish Divorced WH #1. IHS with wayward #2 Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018. Dday #3 December 17th.
